I’ve always been a plus size even as a little girl. Unfortunately, Barbie’s figure was synonymous to sexy in our society while I was growing up. Being chubby or skinny became a flaw for most girls so back then choosing my OOTD has been a struggle. I wanted to wear trendy clothes and learn some fashion care tips for my outfits to look good. But that didn’t matter because I still get taunted about being chubby regardless if I wear fitting or loose clothes. I just laugh whenever they tease me, calling me “Suman” or Lechon”, not realizing that it was hurting my self confidence.
Those who know me might’ve noticed that loose shirts, pants, and comfortable clothes were my standard outfits. This was the “Barbie effect” on my self-confidence.
It’s a good thing that our society now recognizes that “sexy” comes in different shapes and sizes, including plus size. I learned that “Your body is not wrong. Society is”. I began to embrace my plus sized body and started to wear dresses and body fit clothes that I used to shun. Luckily there are plenty of plus sized clothes available in fashion outlets today. Here is one of my best powerdressing looks that I discovered as I began to explore my fashionable side.
This photo was taken during an event wherein we were asked to strut on stage in our outfits. I’m really a very shy person and I never imagined myself doing anything like that. With the help of my friends and the right outfit, I overcame my fears and strutted out on stage like a fashion model.
It was then that I learned that wearing the RIGHT CLOTHES for YOU can BOOST YOUR CONFIDENCE. That experience proved to me that the way we dress affects our mood. Yes, clothes can really boost your confidence! Here are some ideas on how to stay confident through your fashion picks.
- Choose Clothes That Flatter Your Body Shape.
People come in different shape and sizes. Know your body shape and choose clothes that complement it. Clothes that fit you well can camouflage problem areas and accentuate the good ones. Just remember that you can look good and feel sexy no matter what size you are. - The Right Colors Can Make Your Beauty Shine.
Red and black are power colors for dressing up. They can make you look really stunning in your outfit. But there are more colors that you can explore for your daily outfits. Simply choose colors that match your skin tone and let your beauty shine in your OOTD. - Look before you Wear.
It can be tempting to buy trendy clothes on display but the question is, “Will it look good on you?” Always check the fit and ask yourself if you feel good about wearing it before going to the check out counter. If you look good and feel good in it then go for it!
Getting dressed everyday used to be a struggle for me but now I look forward to it. Remember that our clothes are tools that we can use to project a positive image for ourselves and make us feel great. And when something makes you feel good about yourself then you need to take extra care of it. Here are some FashionCare tips to make your stylish clothes last longer.
- Fold clothes like an expert
Pay attention on how you fold clothes to minimize creases and preserve their shape. It is always best to fold them along the seams to achieve a perfect fold. - Always clean before you store
Bugs, dirt, and strong scents that may be left on your clothes before storing can damage your fashion treasures. Make sure that your clothes are clean and free of any “tenants” before putting it in storage. - Store clothes using the right tools
Bags and boxes may be fine for storing your regular tees but some clothes may require special tools. Clothes with delicate fabric should be carefully stored with protective wrappings. You would also need a suit hanger and a breathable canvas bag for your suits. - Hangers can damage clothes too
Avoid cheap plastic or wire hangers that may cause stretching in the shoulder area of your tops. Invest in hangers that provide the right support for all types of clothes. Also remember that hanging knit fabrics can stretch them out over time. - Inspect for stains and snags
Stains and snags are common clothing accidents and it is best to treat them immediately. Putting stained clothes or fabrics with snags in the washer can damage it more. Remember to inspect and treat damages before putting clothes in the machine. - Organize your laundry before washing
Separating the white fabrics from colored ones is the first step in organizing your laundry. But it shouldn’t stop there, also check and follow washing instructions in your clothing tags. This will help you keep your clothes looking fresh and bright for a longer period of time. - Never wash brand new bold colored clothes with lightly colored clothes
The deep bold colors on on clothing is more likely to bleed onto lighter ones, more so when they are brand new. Washing in cold water can help but it isn’t a perfect solution. - Check your pockets for rogue occupants
Coins are the top culprits when you hear weird clanking sound in the washing machine. This may not be a major cause for alarm but it can prevent you from getting an efficient wash. Always check pockets for coins, keys, tissues and other items that may be damaged and cause damage during the wash. - Avoid improper use of detergent
Using more detergent will not necessarily result to cleaner clothes. Too much detergent can even damage your clothes in the long run. It can and also damage the machine as excess soap can encourage mildew growth. Remember to follow the manufacturer’s guide for detergent use. You will save money and protect both clothes and machine from unnecessary damage. - Rotate clothes in your closet
Rotating clothes in the closet allows you to balance the use of your clothes and lessen the wear and tear. Freshly laundered clothes go to the back of the closet and the rest are moved to the front. People are likely to grab items in front more than those at the back. This way your clothes have time to “rest” before you wear them again. - Electrolux Washing Machines as your FashionCare Partner
Good quality and reliable washing machines are important in taking care of your clothes. As such, Electrolux washing machines can be your best Fashion Care partner. It can help you be more confident in your clothes and favorite fashion pieces by giving it the proper care.
Easy and fuss-free, this is how you can describe fashion care with Electrolux washers and dryers. They are not just Energy-Efficient and Fast-Cleaning these machines also come with smart features to provide expert care for delicate fabrics. It has everything you need to get clean, soft, and vibrant looking clothes that last longer. In short, they enable you to do efficient laundry at your own convenience.
Doing laundry doesn’t feel like a chore anymore because everything is a breeze.

These washers have everything it takes to give you clean and soft clothes that look vibrant and new longer. Electrolux appliances provide expert care for every kind of fabric to make laundry a pleasure and not a chore.
The UltraMix™ System is another noteworthy feature of the Electrolux premium washers. This patented pre-mixing technology dissolves the detergent before it reaches your clothes and cleans even the most delicate garments. It delivers exceptional deep cleaning in cold water and keeps your clothes looking vibrant with 32% less colour fading.
With Electrolux Vapour Refresh program, you will get wrinkle-free clothes with less ironing hassle. It refreshes your clothes, leaving them smelling fresh and looking like new. I also think that moms will appreciate that Electrolux washers reduce up to 99.9% of allergens with its Vapour Care feature. Electrolux Load Sensor™ automatically senses load weight, determines optimal washing time, water and detergent. On top of that, you are ensured of high energy efficiency and quieter wash cycle from an Ecoinverter Technology.
Electrolux washers are certified by the Woolmark Apparel Care for the gentlest care of hand-wash only woollens. Their machines are even gentler than traditional hand-washing.
The Woolmark Company is the world’s leading, independent authority on wool care. Its apparel care label guarantees that appliances are safe for hand wash-only woollens. The Woolmark Apparel Care label on an Electrolux washer means that you are able to hand-wash those woolens using even less energy than normal. This not only saves you money but it’s more environment friendly. That’s efficient fashion care from a brand that you can be confident with.
Remember, to always love what you wear whether it’s pants, shirt or dress! By wearing your favorite clothes that make you feel good about yourself will give you that boost of confidence, making you feel like YOU CAN ACCOMPLISH ANYTHING! So, wear what you love, enjoy your life, and don’t forget my FASHIONCARE tips to make your clothes last longer.
Ruby Caberte says
I agree! We should embrace our own size and be sexy at our own right. Thank you for sharing these fashioncare tips!
Mommy Iris says
Getting there Mommy Ruby! Malaki din damage kasi ng mga pangaasar sakin. Pero atleast I made some improvements na. Dati di mo ako mapapalabas ng nakadress unless may kasal
Trixie Ison says
I am really inspired by this article. Let’s all devote time in loving ourselves more. #CelebrateYourself
Mommy Iris says
Thank you Trix!
Mitch Carvalho says
Back then, my problem/struggle naman was the opposite. Tingting at payatot naman ang tawag nila sa akin. Sheket huh! Tapos sabi pa sa classroom namin noon kahit hindi umurong ang seatmates ko kakasya daw ako.
Just like you it affected my self-confidence, too, kaya I was stuck at wearing what I thought would look good on me.
Pero sabi nga nasa nagdadala yan at sa klase ng damit na sinusuot, syempre pati na din sa way ng paglalaba. Haha I can still remember kapag payat ka tapos namali ng laba ang shirts mo sa bandang leeg, jusme magmistula kang hanger talaga hahaha!
Mommy Iris says
Hanger talaga? Kapag naman mali din laba mo, madalas luluwag ung damit, kaya nagiging bedsheet damit ko Hahaha! Tinatawanan natin noh per seriously nakakababa din ng confidence ung mga maliit n biro or pang aasar
Joanne Gonzales-Tagros says
Ang cool ng mga tips mo! Super amazing, ngayon ko lang nalaman ung iba dito. Like rotate my clothes, tapos ung dapat meron dapat kalagyan sila, tsaka pati sa hangers. Kaya pala nasisira ung ibang damit ko.
Mother ko ngsasabi sakin kung bagay o hindi damit ko, buti nalng ksama ko sya palagi pg bumibili ako ng damit. Haha
Mommy Iris says
Naku dami ko ding ndiscover n tips. Guilty din ako sa hindi pag rotate ng damit. Kaya kung ano lang nsa ibabaw, ayun lang isusuot ko. In short paulit ulit tlaga
Annette Figuracion Mejia says
It’s not the size of your body, that make you sexy it’s how you projected it. Being Chubby is Sexy as long as you are happy.
Mommy Iris says
Chubby is the new sexy 😜
Stef Cruz-Lingat says
Wow! True enough, however the society looks at us, we should just shrug it off and embrace how we are. I was too thin naman during my younger years, mahirap din manamit and someone even said na baka daw liparin ako ng malakas na hangin sa nipis ko. Haha! It is quite hard to go through that phase but with family and true friends, everything will be alright. I so love the tips, and the washing machine, by the way.
Mommy Iris says
Hi sis, true. Mahilig mangasar mga tao sa paligid minsan di na nila narerealize na may effect din un sa taong tinutukso nila. Naku, who you na sila ngayon sayo 🙂
Kisś Mejia-Suck says
nice
Mommy Iris says
Salamat
Shannon Patterson says
These are some really great tips and that dress looks AMAZING on you! I love that people are finally starting to learn that they can love the body they’re in, no matter the size.
Mommy Iris says
Thanks Shannon!
Samantha says
Thanks for the fashioncare tips! I do agree, only we can carry ourselves, and embrace ourselves for who we are to truly shine. 🙂 Every day is a chance to make progress, and kudos to you for taking those steps forward!
Mommy Iris says
Totally agree with you sis! Though sometimes, it will take a while before One can take a step forward. But I’m glad I did
Erica Yu-b says
Naiyak ata ako sa article mo! Your beautiful and sexy inside out! Go for the gold!
Mommy Iris says
Pwede bang pang MMK? Hahaha! Thanks sis
Sarah Bailey says
Oh wow you look awesome, go you for embrasing yourself and strutting your stuff! And thank you so much for the care tips as well!
Mommy Iris says
Thanks also for dropping by.
Corinne & Kirsty says
Your advice are great! You should always buy pieces that suits you and flatter your body.
Iris Rebao Pulga says
Love your body, embrace your size❤️ We love you as you are, Cams ❤️❤️❤️ Keep on shining!
Mommy Iris says
thanks sis! mwah
Merly says
Ganda naman ng washing machine! Electrolux din gamit ko, matibay!
Mommy Iris says
Trusted brand na rin po namin ang Electrolux 😍
Mommy Bllogger Kaye says
You are sexy the way you are. Don’t mind what the society dictates, embrace your size, be confident about it and all else will follow.
Mommy Iris says
Thanks Mommy Kaye
Emilyn Sia says
Body confidence doesn’t come from trying to achieve the perfect body. It comes from embracing the one you’ve already got! Love your body and be proud ❤ Bagay na bagay ang dress!!!😍 Araw arawin na yan 😉
Mommy Iris says
Thanks Emilyn! Pag may Electrolux washing machine na kami, tsaka ko aarawarawin mag dress! Para di madaling maluluma ang damit! 😜
Patricia-Ann Que says
first the green dress looks fab! second this tips are seriously helpful! i like clothes but im poor in taking care of them so this one actually woke me up ! lol
Mommy Iris says
Haha! It’s a wake up call for me too!
Marjorie Uy says
I like what you said “Your body is not wrong. Society is”.
You are beautiful inside and out, Iris that’s the most important thing. 🙂
Mommy Iris says
Thank you Marj! 😍
makeamomsmile says
I LOVE these tips! Some days I also struggle to get dressed also. This dress looks great on you, super cute!
Mommy Iris says
Thanks. You made me smile today 🙂
Siti Aana says
Loving and accepting your body is a key to stay happy. You look gorgeous in this outfit. Oh and a proper washing machine is surely a must.
Mommy Iris says
True! Knowing, loving and accepting your body is the key!
Corinne & Kirsty says
Your advice are great! You should always buy pieces that suits you and flatter your body.
Mommy Iris says
Thank you
confettiandbliss says
I love all of these super helpful tips for taking proper care of your clothing. I love my washer and dryer, but these large-capacity machines will need to be replaced early next year. I will definitely be keeping your product recommendations in mind.
Mommy Iris says
Yes, Electrolux is a reliable brand!
Mommy Engineering says
Dressing the part has always been one of those things I did to boost my confidence in some situations! Love your style!
Mommy Iris says
Thank you Mommy Engineering
Levy Martinez says
For me, physical beauty is not important. We cannot please everybody. We need to learn to love ourselves to have self confidence. Kahit anong isuot mo basta marunong kang magdala keri na 🙂
I like that Electrolux washing machine… gosh!
Mommy Iris says
I’m trying to rebuild my self confidence, nauubusan ako ng powers e.. Thanks madam levy for dropping by
Amber says
I just love this! We should always love our bodies. I always tell my daughter that she’s beautiful and I hope she always believes it.
Mommy Iris says
I’m sure she believes it!
Marian Mitchell says
I love that dress on you! I think proper fit and style for individual body types. I’m a size 4, curvy girl, with a big butt and can’t where a lot of styles. I REALLY enjoyed your clothing care tips. Some of those I didn’t even think about.
Mommy Iris says
Thanks Marian
Dawn Wairimu says
this is amazing. i love the dress on you – it looks great. i can relate to the “barbie effect” — more power to you for overcoming it. you look fabulous.
Mommy Iris says
Thank you!
Nicole Aguilar says
You have a beautiful, curvy figure. Embrace it.
Mommy Iris says
Thanks
Dhada says
Ang galing nung FashionCare tips! Hindi ko alam yung iba dyan! Madalas pa naman ako, paulit ulit ang damit. Dapat pla irotate.
Mommy Iris says
Some of those tips ngayon ko lang din nalaman. Galing noh
Gladys Parker says
I didn’t know until I read your post that Electrolux even made washers but now I want one mostly for the Vapour Care due to my allergies. Speaking of allergies I love your tip about checking pockets. I always wash tissues because I have one or more stuffed in my pocket for my drippy allergy nose.
Mommy Iris says
Yeah moms will love the Electrolux vapour care feature becauae it can reduce up to 99.9% of allergens!
KiwiTheBeauty says
i think we all struggle with our size at some point of our lives, especially as women. Its learning to love yourself through your size of weight gain or loss, you still have to love yourself and keep your confidence up.
Mommy Iris says
Well said! Know and love your body
Stefanie Davis says
This is so true, I’ve always wondered why I could get a similar outfit as someone that I admired but it doesn’t look anything like that on me, we’re all made so differently, it’s so nice that there is such a variety of fashion out there today, love the green dress!
Mommy Iris says
Yup choose the right style for your body. Know your body. Thank you Stefanie!
Eninaj Rebate says
You’re right po 😍 the body is not the basis,ang fashion mo tlaga ang magdadala sayo.😊 thankyou po sa tips I will apply it.
Mommy Iris says
Thanks for dropping by Janine!
Joy Wong Sy says
Agree!!! I’ve always been on the heavier side too. Love your body and embrace it. Don’t care what tehy say as long as you feel good, just do it!
Mommy Iris says
Thanks sis!
Shalama Jackson says
Feeling confident in your skin and clotheseothare extremely imporant. When you find things you love that helps it makes it even better.
Mommy Iris says
Great point Shalama
Kelly Hutchinson says
I am currently working on loving myself and my body more. This article wras very inspiing to read!
Mommy Iris says
Glad you like it
Our Family World says
Thanks for sharing your story and your fashion tips. I gained a lot of weight when I started working a corporate job, because of the sedentary work and laid back lifestyle. But I got back on track, chose healthy food, did some exercise. Although I am still on the chubby side, I feel more confident especially if I wear clothes that flatter my figure and hide my flaws. I guess accepting who you are helped a lot. Remember, Beauty has no size. 🙂
Mommy Iris says
I’m happy for you! I’m really having a hard time losing weight. But I guess I’m doing the wrong method.
helenalemon says
It’s true, nothing is wrong with your body. Don’t let society dictate you on what to do. You’re pretty and you deserve to wear what you like! You go girl!
Mommy Iris says
Thank you
katie smith says
clothes can really make or break you so better take care of your clothes! Thanks for sharing these tips
Mommy Iris says
I couldn’t agree more!
Christine Cox says
Such a lovely post! Be confident always! You’re pretty!
Mommy Iris says
Thank you christines
Adaleta Avdić says
It is so important to find the right fit and shape of clothing that fits your body type, dressing well isn’t hard you just have to know your body
Mommy Iris says
indeed! Know and be proud of your body
Ruth I. says
Your wrap-around dress accentuate your bust area which is your asset. And that wedge sandals gave you that perfect strut.
Mommy Iris says
Thank you Ruth
Blair Villanueva says
Every human have its own unique beauty. But having an Electrolux washing machine like this at home will definitely makes your laundry at ease.
What’s the cost?
Heather Johnson says
We are all different shapes and sizes (otherwise the world would be boring!). We each have to figure out what looks best on our body types to feel our best! Or wear what you want anyway if it makes you happy!
Mommy Iris says
So true Heather. Body shape is all about proportion, and fashion is all about dressing those proportions to look their very best .
Jessica Taylor says
Awesome post! So inspiring! That dress looks amazing on you!
Mommy Iris says
Thanks Jessice! Feel free to share this post 🙂
sara lafountain says
I just love the green dress on you! It is so beautiful and a great color on you.
Mommy Iris says
Thank you! Green is my fave color!
Kim says
I love your tips and that green dress is so pretty on you!
Mommy Iris says
Ooh thanks kim!
Schulist Aduke Courtney says
I’m loving all these body positivity posts from fellow bloggers. Your body is gorgeous.
Mommy Iris says
Thank you Schulist Aduke Courtney
Jennifer R. Luna says
Oh you just look fabulous! Loved seeing you so confident and happy. I definitely need to invest on some good washer/dryer because my old one isn’t cutting it anymore.
Mommy Iris says
Thank you Jennifer! When you’renplanning to buy a washing machine, get the Electrolux ☺️
Coleen says
Lovely dress and awesome tips!
Mommy Iris says
Thank you coleen
Michelle says
I love the green dress on you. Dedmahin mo na lng ung mga nangaasar sayo. Mga walang magawa yun.
Jonella says
I’m a plus size too; though di ko iniisip yung nga sinasabi ng iba. We are sexy! We are voluptious!