My Life is Incomplete
I never realized that Monch and I have been married for 10 months. We were a couple for almost 4 years before we finally got married.
So, we’ve been together for almost 5 years. I’m happy that I married the right guy. I feel safe everytime I’m with him. But I feel there is something missing or should I say someone. Having a baby is our plan but no matter what we do, it fails. I think I have a problem with conceiving.
My mom says here are some of the factors of not conceiving:
1. Stress.
I admit I become anxious and stressed out these past few months. That’s one of the reasons I quit my job.
2. Diet.
I’m guilty! I’m overweight and I have poor eating habits. But I’m trying to lose weight and starting to eat healthy foods.
3. Caffeine.
I learned that caffeine is thought to restrict the growth of a developing baby by constricting blood vessels and reducing blood flow to the uterus. But I don’t drink coffee anymore.
I think it is really time to see my Ob-gyne again. Honestly, I’m afraid to go to my Ob-gyne and have some tests. The thought of infertility scares me. However, I really want to have a baby. I guess it is not yet time for us to have a baby.
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my husband and i have been married for over a year and are childless. i really think that as long as you both are happy, then be happy whether or not you have a baby. who ever said that a family needs children to be complete, right? Of course, babies are blessings from God, and we’d welcome it with open arms, but i think that for you to be really happy in your marriage, you have to realize that you and your husband, you’re already a complete family.
i do hope that you become successful in conceiving a child someday. in the same way that my husband and I hope for one too, eventually.
yep, a baby would definitely add a new dimension to your life.
I can’t imagine my life being unhappy even without children, though. personally, i really would like to be a mom, but i don’t think my heart would be too broken if i don’t bear my own child. my husband and i talked it over and agreed that we would even consider adoption, when we feel ready for it.
I guess you are right… My life is complete because of my husband and my family. But my life will be happier if we have a baby.
lets just keep our hopes up and remember blessings do come when you least expect it
We also talked about it too. If ever, I cannot conceive, we agree that we will consider adoption.
just tell me if you want a baby. i will make one for you. hehehe…. joke!
if you consider adoption, i guess there are many babies in DSWD that needs love and affection. they deserve to have love in the world too. i guess that would be the right move, just in case.
haha.. pwde rin mommy..
but before kami mag adopt, pacheck up muna ako. to make sure…
Be patient sis. It’ll come when it’s time. In the meantime, enjoy being with your husband alone. And concentrate lang – actively haha!
haha yun n nga ginagawa ko. I’m enjoying my time with him. Next time, I’ll try mag acrobat… lol